I'm not having another surgery. He convinced me. Right now, post the nasty chemo, I'm still at a 44% risk of further cancer within 5 years. Radiation will reduce that to 10%. Surgery wouldn't get it down that far... and... surgery is:
Just. Not. Done. Post Chemo.
Very irregular, and he said if someone wanted to cut me they better call and talk to him first. See what I'm saying here? Uber confident. I appreciate that greatly.
I saw them today for an initial CT scan and tattoos... everyone gets them. They take a mold of your body so when you start the radiation you'll settle into the same position every time. The very difficult part for me is the arms overhead. Let me explain:
Since I went into RA remission in 2000 I was able to stop taking all of those meds and did okay for about a year. I started having mini flare-ups so I was put on an NSAID- Ketoprophen that was time released. If you understand neurochemistry at all I have GREAT receptor sites for this little drug. It's like Ibuprophen but not. It keeps me from hunching over like a 90 year old in pain. So... recently my insurance said "um, no, we aren't covering this because it's time release and too expensive." My PCP's office sent over en masse a list of all the RA drugs they tried me on through a couple of decades and why I needed to remain on this one (hello, like I don't function well at all without it!). A freakin' NSAID, for gods sake! No, again. Doc did the next best thing, put me on the same drug (just not time release) 2 times a day, and a lower dosage.
A week of this, holy crap. I'm in super slo-mo. Feel awful all day, every day, 24/7. I cry pathetically all the time when I just can't stand it any more (like a half hour ago when I was crying into my spaghetti).
Every joint, back, knees.... I could go on a tirade about how insurance companies should not interfere with a doctors care and the well being of their patients... but they rule the world. I know, I did utilization review. And I savored those moments when I could fuss with them using their own standards. It's the unscrupulous doctors that make the rest of us pay. Dang. Okay... but it was just a tiny tirade!
Where was I? Oh, yes, it's very hard for me to keep my arms up over my head, lying down, with my chin pointed upwards to the left! They have to radiate the breast, axillary lymph nodes, supraclavicular nodes, and some cervical nodes. Now, it's true radiation only takes about 10 minutes or so, but today I wasn't in that position for even that long and I had to (slowly) bring my right arm down using my left arm. <sigh> Wah!
During this week of no pain relief and having to use a cane to help me stand in the evenings... I felt so alone. This is normal I guess. I'm dealing with that, and the C-bitch. Yes, yes, I have friends, everyone is a phone call away, David is here, I have some family... I have God. But when it gets right down to it... I deal with this alone. I can explain what's happening to me, even in fine detail if needed, but the truth is... I do it alone. I cope alone. I change my head space... alone. This past week I felt really alone. Still do, but I see the relationship between how I feel and the "alone" thing. If I felt better I know I'd feel better about everything.
Blogs are an interesting way to journal. David says at least... see I can't quite remember what he said but it was funny and about doing the blog as a way that I could actually finish sentences and have the time to find the words I want to say. Chemo-brain is still alive and well here.
Had more to say but will do another blog in a couple of weeks.
I figure with this cancer thing I'm building up karma/cred for the next transition... as in I do believe we all just transition from one reality to another when we die.
Over and out.
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